Prayer is the most intimate form of relationship with God, our Father, and the Creator of all things. Prayer is access to the Source - the Source of all things.
Prayer is the single most important activity that a Christian can do! It's more important than reading the Bible, attending church, giving, worship, or serving others. Without the connection to the Source, we cannot serve God.
As Christians, we have accepted the sacrifice that Jesus made for our sins. This sacrifice means that we are washed clean of sin, and we can enter into the very presence of God with our prayers and petitions.
Because of Christ and our faith in him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God's presence.
Ephesians 3:12 NLT
How wonderful it is that we, as Christians, can enter into the presence of God because of the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. How wonderful it is that God loves us so much that he gave his only Son, Jesus, to make it possible for us to do this. Therefore, because we have such a great privilege, daily participation in prayer is something that every Christian should be involved in. Prayer is intimacy with God.
Prayer is How We Develop A Relationship With God
Here's the amazing thing, God, the Creator of the universe, longs and desires intimacy with us and to have a relationship with us. He seeks it out.
Oppressive governments, evil people, and bad actors can take away churches, preaching, and Bibles, but they can never take away our ability to pray.
Preparing To Pray
There is, however, a need for a special daily prayer in our spiritual walk. On the night before Jesus chose twelve of his disciples to become apostles, Jesus prayed all night (Luke 6:12). Jesus rose early in the morning (while it was still dark) and slipped away to a solitary place to pray (Mark 1:35). Our daily prayer requires us to have an isolated area where we can be alone with God without interruption. We should also try to set aside the same time to pray each day.
If the troubles of my day make it hard for me to focus during prayer, I find it helpful to read the Bible during my prep time. This is probably a sound practice regardless of your state of mind though I do not do it.
Praying
There is no "wrong way" to pray as long as it comes from the heart. In the presence of your loving Father, you can pour out your heart. There is worship, praise, love, joy, and adoration. There is also anger, rage, loneliness, depression, misery, and gloom. Take everything before him.
Here are some guidelines:
The critical thing to understand is that prayer brings us into the presence of our loving Father. It brings us into companionship with holiness. If we enter into such a place daily, we cannot help but to be profoundly transformed.
Praying in the Spirit
Praying in the Spirit happens when we pray to the Father, and words simply do not express our joy, pain, grief, empathy, thanksgiving, or compassion for a situation. Our spirit communicates our raw emotion directly to the throne of God through the Holy Spirit (Rom. 8:26) without words.
Most Christians have no idea what it means to pray in the Spirit. Many Christians have never prayed in the Spirit because it seems unstructured and unordered. Many Christians have prayed in the Spirit and did not know it. From the verse in Ephesians (6:18), we see that Paul encourages us and recommends that we pray in the Spirit. It is part of putting on the full armor of God (Eph. 6:10-18).
Jude also tells us to pray in the Spirit as a fundamental attribute of Christian living:
To pray in the Spirit, simply let go!
As you pray to the Father and emotions begin to well up inside of you, simply let go. Let those raw emotions flow directly through your prayer; without words. Let the floodgates of your heart open and pour out its contents in the presence of our Creator. It may or may not be accompanied by speaking in tongues, not the languages of people here on earth, but in the language of the angels (1 Cor. 13:1).
It may be accompanied by crying, laughing, or moaning. Praying in the Spirit produces within us a sense of balance; a centered approach to life. It is far more than the peace that passes all understanding (Phil. 4:7). It is a spiritual grounding. It is more analogous to the glowing face of Moses after he spoke with the LORD (Exodus 34:29-35). While we don't have radiant faces, we have an inner radiance seen in our outer appearance.
Final Word
Pray!
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